As I listened to my friend tell me about how his girlfriend recently and abruptly broke up with him over a trivial issue, I tried to console him as much as I could. He was head over heels for her and she told him she loved him two days prior, he even met her dad but all of a sudden they were no more and he was so confused. He has tried to get her back but all to no avail and she said she's not feeling it any more. What went wrong? Only she and God knows...
So, in times like this, all one needs to do is MOVE ON! Moving on isn’t always easy but it is an essential part of life. For this week’s blog post, we’re going to be looking into some solid tips on how to move on after a break up. Let’s gooo!
As I sat down with my best friend some Mondays ago to have a heart to heart after so long, I realised I had a lot of hesitation, doubt and excuses in my vocabulary. I had been living with these thoughts for a while but didn't really pay too much attention to them but when I had an outlet, I poured them out.
I had a lot of doubt about a lot of things such as my future, the book I'm writing and potential relationships, I used sentences like "I don't know," "I'm not sure," "I don't think I should," "I don't think I'm there yet," etc. That's why I decided to write this blog post for me and for you just in case you need it! Hop on and let me show you some amazing ways to deal with self-doubt. Let's gooo!
In about 5 days, millions of Nigerians will leave their houses to queue up in voting centres to exercise their civic duty and cast their vote for their Presidential candidate. There are several presidential aspirants but if we're being pragmatic only two have a shot namely the incumbent President Muhammadu Buhari and former Vice President Atiku Abubakar. So either we get taken to the Next Level or we become Atikulated.
Humans can be funny, we know what is right and good for us but find it difficult to do. Budgeting is one of those right things that many of us of don’t do. Some reasons can be: we don’t understand how money works, we feel it’s too difficult and most often it’s our habits.
We’ve become accustomed to blowing money fast and end up asking ourselves “Where did all my money go?” “I don’t even see what I spent all my money on,” “I can’t believe my money has finished so soon,” etc. Even when we wise up and try to budget, there are some mistakes we keep making and that’s what we’re going to be discussing in this week’s blog post. Let’s gooo!
The world is filled with things that can result in disappointment be it people or events (natural and artificial), plans change and things come up. Part of being human is being able to navigate our way through issues of disappointment and the pain they bring. Essentially, part of life is dealing with disappointment so we might as well learn how to behave, react or conduct ourselves in the face of disappointment and that’s what this week’s blog post is going to help us do. Let’s gooo!
My name is Ofai and I'm passionate about blogging and it gives me fulfillment that I can help you out so sit back, relax and enjoy your weekly carats of #SelfImprovementGems with me!