We all have big dreams but one thing separate those who make it happen and those who don’t and that is repeated action. In order to have repeated action one must in many cases have passion or a strong motivation driving them toward it. For example, you may have a strong affinity towards writing so you may decide to become an author, or you have family members to feed so you know you can’t fool around.
Based on how I am (I don’t like to stress myself), I can find it a bit difficult to take action, to motivation myself. I could start but continuing isn’t usually isn’t my forte, simply because it’s stressful, but as the saying goes “no food for a lazy man.” in my case since I eat every day, I’d say “no good results for a lazy man.”
In this week’s blog post, we’re going to be talking how to motivate yourself or the art of self-motivation because sometimes it can be quite hard to do so but it is the underlying ingredient for success. Let’s gooo!
As I looked at the young man in the mirror last week, I didn’t like what I had seen, I had added more weight than I expected. The thing about weight is that it seems sudden even though it’s been building up for a while, you may notice you’ve added a little weight and it may seem inconsequential and then one day it becomes very evident that you’ve let yourself go. I have been at home for about six months and this was the result, home is the least productive place for me, I always fair better when I’m away from my parents.
I criticized myself a lot but that’s when it hit me, learning to love myself is the most important thing, weight can always be lost if I’m ready to lose it. To be honest, weight was just a physical representation of how I felt: annoyed, tired, lazy and too comfortable, I was annoyed that I was still home, I’ve never been home this long and it pricked me.
In this week’s blog post, we’re going to be exploring how to love yourself, in other words how to practice self-love. Let’s gooo!
It is a human desire to be liked, loved, respected and held in esteem. So, naturally because we are social beings we care what others think of us, how people see us is important to us, we don’t want to be judged or criticised. This means that we can act in ways to put up a front and it isn’t always healthy. We care about how we’re viewed so much that we tend to suffocate ourselves, and don’t live true to ourselves and it can have adverse effects on us. All that being said, there will always be exceptions.
In this week’s blog post, we’re going to be looking into how to stop caring about what other people think of us and start living better lives. Let’s gooo!
Communication is an integral part of the human experience, given the fact that we are social creatures. We communicate in a million and one ways through speech, body language, music, instruments, art, books, etc. plus, we have thousands if not hundreds of thousands of languages which we speak throughout the world.
Having all this in mind, a clearer picture is painted as to why effective communication skills is like having the master key that can open almost any door of opportunity in life whether in work, dating, relationships, networking, family, etc. For this week’s blog post, we’re going to be looking at how to improve our communication skills. Let’s gooo!
Happiness is one of the things we all chase after, maybe if we get a little richer we’ll be happier or maybe if that girl says yes we may be happier or perhaps if we change jobs we might be happier. Whatever the case is, one thing is clear, in our minds, if we achieve something, reach a point or mark something off our checklist we will be happier.
While this may be the case, we often find ourselves in “unhappy” situations, maybe we’re broke or worse, poor, maybe that girl said no or just “wants to be friends” or perhaps we can’t quit our job because there’s no job somewhere else and we have bills to pay and family to feed.
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