As I sat down with my best friend some Mondays ago to have a heart to heart after so long, I realised I had a lot of hesitation, doubt and excuses in my vocabulary. I had been living with these thoughts for a while but didn't really pay too much attention to them but when I had an outlet, I poured them out.
I had a lot of doubt about a lot of things such as my future, the book I'm writing and potential relationships, I used sentences like "I don't know," "I'm not sure," "I don't think I should," "I don't think I'm there yet," etc. That's why I decided to write this blog post for me and for you just in case you need it! Hop on and let me show you some amazing ways to deal with self-doubt. Let's gooo!
In about 5 days, millions of Nigerians will leave their houses to queue up in voting centres to exercise their civic duty and cast their vote for their Presidential candidate. There are several presidential aspirants but if we're being pragmatic only two have a shot namely the incumbent President Muhammadu Buhari and former Vice President Atiku Abubakar. So either we get taken to the Next Level or we become Atikulated.
Humans can be funny, we know what is right and good for us but find it difficult to do. Budgeting is one of those right things that many of us of don’t do. Some reasons can be: we don’t understand how money works, we feel it’s too difficult and most often it’s our habits.
We’ve become accustomed to blowing money fast and end up asking ourselves “Where did all my money go?” “I don’t even see what I spent all my money on,” “I can’t believe my money has finished so soon,” etc. Even when we wise up and try to budget, there are some mistakes we keep making and that’s what we’re going to be discussing in this week’s blog post. Let’s gooo!
My name is Ofai and I'm passionate about blogging and it gives me fulfillment that I can help you out so sit back, relax and enjoy your weekly carats of #SelfImprovementGems with me!